P.S: It pains me to realize I suck at writing rhymes. HAHAHA!
Friday, December 29, 2006
Do you know that Gay/Lesbian friends bite you off real hard. Bitchy is one thing that I can totally tolerate. But when it comes to vengeance, selfishness, insensitivity they are the real cold bitches in the world.
I have to admit my opinion is very biased and homophobic. With all due respect, I have nothing against the sexual orientation of how one prefer to lead their life.
By writing this post, I know I'll be swarmed with loads of outrage comments from the gay people. So as a disclaimer: I will like to stress that, this is based on my personal experience and its only refered to the minority of the gay people who some are my friends. No intentions of disrespecting or creating a drama here.
My experience, I have a friend who always complain of the hardship of being openly gay to the society and how ruthless the reluctant acceptance of the society could be or even boyfriend materials!! When he's down with the gay issues, we are always there to comfort him. It's not out of sympathy to the gays, that's why we are doing this. It's just humility and out of respect n kindness.
Unfortunately, when it gets hard on us straight ones, its only their backs we can talk to. Don't expect the nice treatment you gave to him when he was dead stuck for months, cause he'll just give a 1 mintue bark back " I told you so. You're just like the other pathetic shipwrecks." or they'll give you the best one liner advice that you've once given to them in the most vicious jack the ripper way.
OUCH! Your counselling consultation has ended with him. Permanently.
It's a pity and unfortunate that some of them are really good people, very sociable, happening people, colourful personalities to admire or even be inspired. They are also very protective of their really close friends if they were verbally attacked on the spot. But all of that will come to a waste when they switch into their "oblivious-selfish off to my social circle" mode. To them, My life's too short, its the social life I got to run instead, Ta-Ta!The irony: we spent so much time giving him support when he's in hellmouth. But it's only a minute he could spare for us though.Maybe this whole time I have been ranting pointlessly and pissively.
but..
My point is: Keep treating your str8 frens unfairly,selfishly and obliviously, the only str8 frens you'll ever get and appreciate are the ones who are out there to get you one way or another in the present or future or they are plain doofus who simply are lonely and begging for acceptance themselves.
"Heterosexual or homosexual we should always practice fair treatments"The irony: You are always saying that the heterosexual society are unfair to you. What have you done in your part when they've given you your anticipated acceptance and fair treatments?PS: This post works both ways -either to the homosexual or the heterosexual. It could also be of concern to cultures/races. No offences. This is again just a blog post/reflection on human individual humility, kindness and respect for each other to achieve the harmonious cohesiveness living of a community.
City of Weirdos. 3:57 PM
